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December 14, 2022

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A woman is joyfully hugged by two young girls outdoors—showcasing intergenerational love.

San Mateo woman took in grandkids after her daughter’s death — and struggled to make ends meet

Leticia Cervantes has always considered herself a social person and motivated her clients and friends to live healthier lifestyles as a fitness and wellness coach in the Bay Area.

The 52-year-old hosted exercise classes, created nutritional programs and sold dietary supplements as an independent distributor for Herbalife, the nutritional supplement company.

“I love to talk to people,” said Cervantes in Spanish.

But in March 2020, she said, her life drastically changed after her 28-year-old daughter, Carmen Herrera, died in Los Angeles. She left behind four children: 7-month-old twins, and two boys ages 7 and 9 at the time.

“What am I going to do?” she recalled asking herself at the time. “All I thought about and worried about were finances, because how was I going to raise them by myself”

The father of the 7-year-old took custody of the boy after Herrera died, and Cervantes is raising her three other grandchildren on her own in San Mateo, she said.

“What am I going to do?” she recalled asking herself at the time. “All I thought about and worried about were finances, because how was I going to raise them by myself?”

The financial worries consumed Cervantes so much that she couldn’t properly grieve the death of her daughter, she said. On top of that, her sorrow affected her ability to work, and she has taken on fewer clients recently.

A woman and child on swing set in a park—portraying play, exercise, and connection.
Leticia Cervantes pushes her grandson Damien Herrera, 11, while spending time with her three grandchildren at Ryder Park in San Mateo, Calif. Wednesday, Oct. 19, 2022. Just before the pandemic, Cervantes tragically lost her daughter. She was killed in Los Angeles, leaving behind four children. Leticia became guardian to three of her daughter’s four children. Jessica Christian/The Chronicle
A woman kneels with two girls as they play with sand toys—representing learning and care.
Leticia Cervantes plays with her 3-year-old twin granddaughters Athena, center, and Altheia at Ryder Park in San Mateo, Calif. Wednesday, Oct. 19, 2022. Just before the pandemic, Cervantes tragically lost her daughter. She was killed in Los Angeles, leaving behind four children. Leticia became guardian to three of her daughter’s four children. Jessica Christian/The Chronicle

“I wasn’t able to help and motivate people anymore,” she said, choking back tears.

She said the oldest grandson has been in therapy and that all of her family members, including her other two grandchildren, are trying to get back on their feet.

“I am their grandmother, I love them, but I could never take their mother’s place,” she said.

Cervantes said this year has been especially difficult because one of the twins developed intense headaches and had to go to the emergency room twice. With no car or money for a babysitter, Cervantes said, those emergency room trips and other medical appointments made it difficult for her to pay the bills and the rent for her two-bedroom apartment.

She first asked the Samaritan House, a San Mateo nonprofit that helps families in need avoid crisis, for help to pay the light bill.

Her case manager, Julio Campos, connected her to The Chronicle Season of Sharing Fund, a charitable fund that provides housing and food assistance to families in the Bay Area. The administrative costs are covered by the Evelyn and Walter Haas Jr. Fund and The Chronicle, and all donations go directly to those in need.

“I am very grateful,” she said. “There are people who really need the help. It prevents us from becoming homeless and helps us move forward.”

“I wasn’t able to help and motivate people anymore,” she said, choking back tears.

She said the oldest grandson has been in therapy and that all of her family members, including her other two grandchildren, are trying to get back on their feet.

“I am their grandmother, I love them, but I could never take their mother’s place,” she said.

Cervantes said this year has been especially difficult because one of the twins developed intense headaches and had to go to the emergency room twice. With no car or money for a babysitter, Cervantes said, those emergency room trips and other medical appointments made it difficult for her to pay the bills and the rent for her two-bedroom apartment.

She first asked the Samaritan House, a San Mateo nonprofit that helps families in need avoid crisis, for help to pay the light bill.

Her case manager, Julio Campos, connected her to The Chronicle Season of Sharing Fund, a charitable fund that provides housing and food assistance to families in the Bay Area. The administrative costs are covered by the Evelyn and Walter Haas Jr. Fund and The Chronicle, and all donations go directly to those in need.

Reach Jessica Flores: jessica.flores@sfchronicle.com; X: @jesssmflores

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