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December 17, 2025

Meet Prudence

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One lost purse left her on the brink of homelessness. Then the Season of Sharing Fund stepped in

All it took was forgetting to buy her son’s toiletries.

Prudence Wesson headed back inside the drugstore — 10 minutes tops — then drove home to her San Rafael apartment without a thought. Later, she recalled, “I reached back to get my purse, and it’s not there.”

Presuming it stolen from her back seat, Wesson, 55, panicked. It was a late July payday, and she’d just withdrawn that month’s rent, plus spending money, from an ATM. Suddenly it was gone. “I live paycheck to paycheck,” she told the Chronicle. She had no cushion, no family she could fall back on, and her partner, Marcel Parker, was also in a rough patch. All at once, she and her 17-year-old son Bailey were at risk of homelessness.

But she did have savvy honed from her decades of work, on and off, at the addiction recovery nonprofit Center Point. So she thought, “What would I do for someone in my situation?”

That’s how Wesson got connected with the Season of Sharing Fund, a donor-supported organization that provides emergency cash for food or shelter to residents of nine Bay Area counties. The charity supplied her with two months rent — enough to get her back on track — and it came through in just two weeks.

Jasmine Cervantes, Wesson’s case manager at Community Action Marin, which helped Wesson apply for Season of Sharing funding, praised her client’s resilience.

“In talking to her, I really got a sense of someone who has overcome a lot and just continues to do the best that they can day by day,” she said.

“What would I do for someone in my situation?”

Wesson, a domestic violence survivor and recovering addict, graduated from Center Point herself before eventually becoming a program manager at its San Rafael facility.

“I’m dealing with molding a life, and I don’t take that lightly,” she said of her career, her light green-brown eyes almost never breaking eye contact.

Wesson works with clients on everything from getting up at the same time every day to making their beds. She especially relishes leading group sessions, where “they can start to work on the deeper things that really hold them back from succeeding and thriving,” she said.

Person sitting on bed looking toward child indoors.
“I live paycheck to paycheck,” says Prudence, seen here with her 17-year-old son, Bailey, and granddaughter Zara at home in San Rafael on Dec. 9. When she lost her purse, she and Bailey were at risk of becoming homeless. Santiago Mejia/S.F. Chronicle

She’s good at recognizing that when clients lash out at her, it’s because they want to say, “Step back; I don’t want to share,” but don’t have the tools yet. She’s also been doing this so long that she knows what each type of client — the sobbers, the screamers, the silent ones — will do before they do. 

“Same behavior, different face,” as Wesson put it with a chuckle.

Each week, she unwinds with a day in her pajamas and trashy TV — “The Real Housewives,” “90-Day Fiancé” — because, as she quipped, “I don’t have to fix this dysfunction; I get to just watch it.”

Still, she’s acutely aware of the irony of her situation. She has dedicated her career to helping women and children who have nowhere else to go, but she barely had any more resources herself.

After she lost her purse over the summer, she had to go back to work as if nothing had happened.

“You have to learn how to put your stuff aside — like a nurse would have to do, like a doctor would have to do,” she said.

And it wasn’t easy for her to ask for help.

“I almost felt guilty,” she recalled, wondering to herself if she was unworthy and the funds should go to “somebody who has it worse than you” — even though her home was at risk.

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When Prudence received support from the Season of Sharing Fund, she admits, “It was really just total relief. … I felt like I didn’t have to feel any pressure for a couple months.” Santiago Mejia/S.F. Chronicle
Young child dancing or moving playfully in a living room.
Prudence was acutely aware of the irony of her situation. She has dedicated her career to helping women and children who have nowhere else to go, but she barely had any more resources herself. Santiago Mejia/S.F. Chronicle

“We’re taught at a very young age that we shouldn’t need help; we should be the helpers.”

At the same time, she works with so many women who are reluctant to admit weakness that she recognized her thought patterns. “It’s the woman’s plight to just take care of people,” she said. “We’re taught at a very young age that we shouldn’t need help; we should be the helpers.”

But when Wesson received the Season of Sharing funds, she admitted, “It was really just total relief. … I felt like I didn’t have to feel any pressure for a couple months.”

Case manager Cervantes describes the Season of Sharing Fund as “a bridge.”

“We are here to help you get from point A to point B — point A being a place of instability, to point B being a greater place of stability,” she explained.

Surveying her life, Wesson marveled at how far she’s come. When she first moved from her native San Francisco to Marin as a 19-year-old heroin and alcohol addict seeking treatment, she never imagined that she could be a mentor for clients and younger counselors alike.

Now she’s so dedicated she checks in on Center Point even on days off. Her three older children have all entered helping professions, too: a firefighter, a Boys & Girls Club worker, and another drug and alcohol counselor.

Helping another helper was especially gratifying for Cervantes.

“I got to help Prudence, and then Prudence is now helping other women in the community,” Cervantes said. “It’s kind of the gift that kept on giving.”

Reach Lily Janiak: ljaniak@sfchronicle.com

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